4 Week Natural Program Journal – Day 9 – Same Day Lay German Girl
Today I went to a daygame session with Alex, I wasnt actually on the session, but I was there anyway. I met seany Alexs main wing, sure everyone has heard of him. I was eating some food, saw 4 girls, one was so sexy, and I knew she was Norwegian, no doubt in my mind. She was sitting down in the middle. Goes without saying I went over, and yes she was Norwegian, I spilled my food all over myself in the process, it looked so dumb… It was clear I only really wanted to talk to the Norwegian, but included the other friends, this is obviously bad cause to some extent its too obvious. It was her first day in sydney, I got her instagram and number, her number was not connected yet, and she was only in sydney for like 2 days…. Cant say im expecting this to go anywhere… But it was nice to just chat to her anyway.
Later on was with seany and some others, seany told us to approach. So I approached a girl walking alone, with a backpack. She Had blue in her hair, and a backpack. She looked like she could be Scandinavian aswell, in my books it goes like this with girls Norwegians>Other Scandinavian counties>Rest of west Europe>Americans>Middle eastern countries>UK and Australia>Asians and africans just in terms of how attracted I am to them, promise im not racist. I went up and asked her how she liked this city, and noticed her hair etc. Then started talking about why I liked sydney etc. She stopped to take photos, then I sat down, expecting her to sit next to me. She did, this was very subtley leading her, without her knowing it. Was purposely saying very little, not touching her, or saying anything overt. Just boring stuff, and occasionally say positive/negative things.
Very soon another student came in, was like oh hey man I know you. Then he just put most of his focus on the girl, she engaged with him. I wasnt sure if he was coming in to make it more interesting for her, or if he was actually trying to shadowlord me or take her away from me… None the less, this made me realise I need to be on my agame… So I let them talk for a bit, was just messaging the Norwegian girl in the mean time. Then put myself back in the conversation, and made sure to made myself a little more protective than he was, but not too much. After I got the convo on something I know he couldnt really talk about, and was unique to me and her, aka we have both lived in the same city, it made it hard for him.
After a bit, he left, then I just took a big step back. She literally was doing all the talking, and I could ask or say anything, and shed talk about it for ages. We walked around for a bit, seeded the idea of drinks, she wasnt keen yet… So continued to talk, oh btw, she said she was doing nothing today, so I had all the time in the world, time was my ally. Spend like an hour around the opera house, then took her to kings cross. As it transitioned to night, I offered to get her a drink again, and she agreed. Took her to rooftop bar at kings cross. Let her speak more, still hadnt done any physical escalation. We had a cocktail, at one point I went to kiss her, she turned her cheek kissed her on cheek, no biggie, I didnt go in too hard.
I Had been with her for like 3-4 hours. So after the drinks, I went shopping with her to make her food. Obviously had to take her to mine to make it, when we got there she wasnt hungry. So I just showed her stuff I knew about the holy roman empire, cause shes German. Then put on a documentary, which we didnt watch at all… Instead She opened up to me, and told me a lot about herself. Still no escalation. I took her hand, after a while pulled her towards me, cuddled up. But no made no serious moves. Soon went for kissing, she was just down for the pecks.
She was very comfortable, later on in the night, it got more sexual, but after a few attempts I could tell she was turned on, but didnt let me put my hands you know where. Most people would call this lmr, but if a girl is in my bed I know ive already won… And infact I never really get lmr anymore. If a girl doesnt want to have sex, its not rejection, she just needs more time… She is here with you right now, and has decided to be here in your bed on her own will. That is awesome, why should you get mad? Anyway after a few attempts I let go and was fine with hugs. As I was falling asleep, I could feel her rubbing her hands more and more on my body. I went to kiss her, this time she was kising me more passionately, and jumped ontop of me, and this time she made it happen. it happened after all, I kind of trusted it was going to happen, especially since I spend like 16 hours with her. She was very sweet, and cool. Big thing about this was the time spent with her, and literally just letting stuff happen, not making it happen.
