4 Week Natural Program Journal – Day 26
Today I went and moved accommodation it was just a bit of a hike down the road to the next suburb. This suburb is full of cats and I love cats, bloody hell! Chat with new housemates, defintely has the vibe of it being no big deal if I bring girls back, good! Settle in, go and meet some of the guys for daygame. Goto the opera house, have a long conversation with a girl from the czech rep before she meets a friend, get her facebook, shes not doing much while shes here so good. Then go and talk to another girl whos so cute, the girl from earlier saw me, so I did it as casually as possible… She had a very weird accent, like a cross between new zealand and swedish, and that explains it really. But sounds so bloody weird!
For such a pretty cute small girl she didnt take much pride in here looks. She had horrible looking finger nails, and didnt have much dress sense, but she was still so attractive. While talking to her she would give me a lot of weird looking negative reactions, but I found a way to not care about this. Just dont look at the girls reactions, when you say something that could be misread, or polarizing, look away from the girl, so you dont see her reaction. This is stuff alex said, and literally works so well, and gives girl impression you arent seeking her approval, but also still helps to consider how you are making girl feel. But not as a reflection of yourself.
After a bit of screening, she isnt down to drink at all, she has some shopping to do, and is at a hostel, I decided I would make it solid for a day 2. We walk around the opera house for a bit, she is more comfortable with me now as she is willing to take my lead and walk with me. If I was focusing on her reactions I may have thought I was annoying her and walked off, but honestly its just cause shes from a different country and gets confused. Walk to tourist shop while she looks at postcards and I make some jokes. She laughs at more stuff I say, I let her go, as she wants to go home, knowing I can see her in next few days before I go, but better make it happen soon amongst my ever growing busy schedule of women and program.
After this me and another student hang out, go and hit up the cross, I approach a few girls in the supermarket, all go very well, but most have boyfriends. Speak to a german girl whom is leaving next day, its on pretty fast, holding hands in supermarket, with our arms around ea other. But shes leaving at 4am in morning and has goodbye bbq with friends then bed. In my mind Im like fuck it shes leaving and plan to try to kiss her in a supermarket. She rejects the kiss, but says shes happy I tried.
Me and the other student have a big beer at his house and a feast of junk food. Then go off to the nightgame venue, we talk to girls on the way, this is what we have in similar, we arent in a rush to get somwhere we are both willing to talk to girls where-ever and when-ever. You might not meet the girls of your dreams in the club, but on the way to the club, so dont limit your thinking to that! We got to the club, immidately got myslef in with a group of swedish ladies! But too early to stay for long, went and met a norwegien girl, she was so hot, pretty much made her my target, till I realised she had a boyfriend, meh its okay. Number closed an english girl, id be happy with her, but there were better girls here, so I just got the number. Found a tall sexy swedish girl while outside.
We very much enjoyed each others company, she was from a country town in sweden, only 400 people, so her accent was a bit different from the swedish in bigger cities. She was with another swedish girl, whom was shorter, and probably more my type in terms of bodyframe. But I really like the taller girl, so made that decision. We had a thumbwar, and she said if a bet her shed buy me a drink, and I said well if you beat me ill get you a beer. So I was certain I was gonna win, so put little effort into it, while looking at her laughing. But guess what she won…. Well I better get her a drink then… She thought I lost on purpose like a gentleman lol. So I bought us both a beer, the friend of hers was needing of more attention, so I talked to her more. After a bit they wanted to do sexy girl dance time. So I spent this time not keeping my eye off them, cause I made decision in my head to front door rule her, but also talk to other girls to see if I can get any dates, but In reality my heart wasnt with any other girl I was just staring at the exit in case they left. I reapproached them and spoke to them for a bit, let them go etc. A few guys were dancing with them for a bit I guess they met earlier, whom were swedish. The shorter girl, the friend of my girl loved them. So she was happy to be with them, but my girl was stand-offish, and was getting escalated hard on by a very tall handsome swedish man. I came over, and got her away, and she was like shes sick of meeting swedish guys haha, I guess it was good for her to talk to me refreshing. They guys had a strong desire to get her away from me, and her friend did aswell since she wanted to be with the guys, so I just let them dance, and knew when it came to the front door she was mine!
Just before the club closed like 5 mins earlier, I knew it was closing time, so if there was any time to get her attention back it was now. So I did that, I had to talk to her while a guy had his arm around her and they were speaking swedish, but there was no alternative, so I just did it. After a bit I got her attention. Her friend dragged her off to the toilet. I had my eye on the toilet, soon as they got out they walked up the stairs to leave club, I ran after them and left with them. Only one other swedish guy came the other whom was on my guy I guess just gave up… VERY GOOD BRAD, spoke to her for a bit. Random guys tried to get them to come over and take cocain with them, I knew my girl was tired and wanted to sleep, so I just tried to help her get taxi, after she got in I left. I would of jumped in with her, but there were a few things that would of made this risky, I had like 5 dollars in my bank, so no way back. And also her friend was there, and it would of definitely made her feel judged. So I settled for her facebook and a day 2. Also I wish I had written my past field reports to this detail, but I was so tired when writing them and hence less inspired, but today I am wide awake! Some of the other night were so interesting, I just didnt have it in me to write all about it!
