4 Week Natural Program Journal – Day 7
I had been texting this american girl, she kept offering to meetup but with her friend. So I ended up meeting up with her with my friend, I made it obvious he was there to wing me, aka mostly keep the other person occupied while I get to know her and chill with her. He did the opposite, talking to her, and paying little attention to the friend. At which point I was annoyed, that I had to be polite to the friend and talk to him, when I arranged to see her…. I got annoyed I told them we were leaving, and told my friend off for going for the girl despite me explaining it prior. He didnt really even understand he was doing it… Wonder if this bridge is burned now, doenst really matter, I have too many leads to worry about this one. However she was very pretty and interesting, so part of me understands why he kept talking to her cause it felt good.
After this I went to the world bar, where I was to do my first night game session with alex just like a bootcamp. Before he got there I approached a few girls, told them if they saw me again I owe them a drink, so they are likely to re-approach. Alex then sent me a message saying, BRAD dont approach until I see you. I did this, hesitantly, when I saw Alex he explained it all. This time he had a lot of nice stuff to say about me, good experience in life, dominant, good voice blah blah. But the problem was with the game conditioning, Lack of understanding, too keen to rush things, use too much energy etc. He said I was only allowed to do 4 approaches, if I approached a group I could go for any girl in that group or whom came into the group and it would still count as one.
So I went like the first hour walking around looking around at what was going on with girls, I felt a bit like a boss sussing out all my workers, was strange, but I liked it and it was for a very good purpose. Eventually, I spoke to a group of 3 girls, I saw down next to the girl not engaged, and talked to them all. Quickly the girl next to me made herself unavailable cause her boyfriend just walked over and I sat next to another. Funny thing is the other girls didnt even know her but I thought they did. Im sure this still counts as one approach. So I spoke to the 2 girls, taking it very slow, and letting the girls ask me questions and feel free to express how they felt. While I just did my own thing slowly.
Randomly 2 guys and a girl sat over, and started talking to us. They didnt know who we were, I suppose we just looked friendly. The girl was norweigen, so its safe to saw I was interested and she was pretty. So I ignored the 2 aussie girls next to me, whom were still talking to me. And now I Was getting to know this other girl. Before they left I got her number, but her brother probably didnt approve. I did try to engage him. Then I went back to the 2 aussie girls, found out the girl next to me had bf, cause she started talking about him. So put my attention on the other girl, and she jumped over her friend and started talking to me. She was already pretty interested in talking, and now she was next to me she I could tell she was open phsyically.
More people came over and left with with the other girl, leaving me isolated with this girl…. I was thinking I should not isolate, but I didnt do it intentially we were just left here. So I said to the girl lets find your friends, and she declined and said she wanted to stay and hang… Well that was a good sign, even though alex told me off for isolating. Its almost Like I got isolated…. LOL, I went to the bar got drinks with her. Later went to her friends. But eventually she found a guy she knew, and it was time for me to leave.
Next me and another guy from the program shadowlorded 2 randoms that just approached 2 girls. After this I only had 2 approaches left. And didnt really approach, Alex gave me a green light to do accidental approaches at the bar, as it was getting later. And he was happy I was in a more relaxed calm understanding mood, something he said hed never seen me in before. I did some funny stuff. Then alex said just go like normal. Pretty soon ended up with this older sexy lady. Was very interesting… She was blowing off guys left right and centre, I can tell their escalation was turning her off. She liked the fun, dominance, and confidence, which at least at the time weere just easy peasy for me. Danced with her, saved her from some guys. Laughed about it, sat down kissed. Screened etc, she had a daughter at the club. Waited until near close to get her out the club, then a guy followed us that she met earlier, it was clear she was not interested. But he must of bought her drinks or something so was being nice. Outside the club he was following us, so I just put up with it, and eventually said lets find your daughter and he left. After a bit with the daughter and some guy she was with, I managed to get them to leave us. The daughter told her mum to go with me, on the way, the mum changed her mind and got taxi and said we will do a date instead, she lived like 90 mins away!! Hindsight should of done more qualification. She was sexy milf, but im not bothered cause I would of felt weird taking a 40 year old back anyway…
