4 Week Natural Program Journal – Day 28
Im having a hard time finding time to write my frs as of lately, at the moment I am on the train for a date, 1 hour away from the city, so good time as any. Today I have my last daygame and nightgame session with alex, we get 4 of each in total, so it was my 4th of each. While waiting for alex to arrive, I approached a girl looking over the harbour river, at the opera house. She was german, pretty cute, very friendly. Screened she seemed single, and waiting for her german friend whom she was travelling with, I noticed him before he came up. German people are so easy to spot! He was very friendly, and the guy didnt really take the attention of the girl off me. I spotted alex and gave him a look, he came over with his 30 thousand dollar camera, and took photos. I got both their facebooks. Ive been messaging the girl since shes very friendly, gonna have to ask her out asap, as she is not here for very long.
Sat down with alex, he gave me the last piece of the game he thinks im missing. And letting myself be vunerable and do less work, so the girl can be the one to win me, cheer me up, do the work, aka chase me. He said I can do this by just letting the girl know about all the things that are getting me down, and I might notice something the girl may start to reassure me. This will change the whole game, instead of me showing the girl a good time, its the girl showing me a good time. Saw a girl sitting down sat down with her, this was good, since if I was to do what alex said I feel like at first I have to give the girl a reason to stay, otherwise they walk off. But since shes sitting down already there, I dont have to do that.
So I sit down, tell the girl how hard im working, and about how I feel, and how sometimes I get really exuasted. This made her talk a lot, and tell me her about herself. She was giving me her perspeictive through herself, im not sure this is directly reassuring me. But its a start as she kind of gets what I say, and is reassuring me through her own experience. We spoke for a bit, she is very busy while she is, here and was keen on the idea of hanging out if time permits it. Later on the session got cancelled as alex needed to spend a lot of time with another student, so I was on daygame again tommorrow.
While here ive got to know a lot of the other students, and build connections with some. With one student in particular whom is kinda similar to me, or maybe me like a little ago. I plan to stay in sydney a bit longer with him after the program. After the daygame session I hung with him for a bit drank some vodka. Headed over to the shief, on the way talked to some girls, 2nd girl I talked to on the way home from new zealand, was a delight. Liked each others company, only goes without saying we wanna meetup and see more of each other, so we are arranging a date for next week.
Got to the shief, was pretty dead, pouring with rain, of the girls whom where there, were quite sexy, but there was a lack of people. Eventually we went over to world bar, where alex told us to go instead due to the lack of people. Here alex told me he just wanted to do what I normally said, but also consider what he said earlier, get the girl to chase you through showing flaws, how you feel, so she has a chance to reassure you make her win you etc. Rather than me being the one showing the girl a good time, me instigating everything haha. So I tried to do that, spend a lot of time with an aussie girl, guess I didnt screen well, cause she had a boyfriend. But she was awesome, and was always happy to see me regardless…
Alex said I needed to make a decision on the girl I wanted soon, alex does this so you dont leave the club alone, even if you dont pull the girl, if you make a decision, you choose her and its so powerful as a qualifier to the girl as shes special. Honestly something I find hard, unless I know pretty well its gonna go well, but alex is more like trust it will go well it doesnt matter if it doesnt just be smart, and make a decision before its too late and all the girls leave. Some more advice alex gives me, is to not go for girls on the outskirts by themselves as they are not having a fun time, not good buying temperatures. Go for the girls having the most fun with their friends. Interesting advice seems like its easier to go for a girl alone bored, but this sure makes me look at it differently.
Later on im talking to 2 swiss girls, I go for the taller blonde one, although the other one is attractive too. They speak swiss german, not french, which is good cause french is a little annoying for me. I screen my girl seems good, dance with them have fun. They both enjoy my company, go outside with them so they can smoke. Get another student to come wing me, he is swiss german too so straight away makes it hard for me when they all speak german lol. So I make him aware that I cant speak german and to speak english as much as possible. He gets us all drinks, nice :).
Spend more time with them, sitting down on couches, after a while they seem harder to be impressed, and bored. But Ive made the decision its her, and its late. Later on I find out she had a boyfriend, despite me screening that and thinking she was single… wtf, well I guess sshe lied to get the attention and the drinks…. After this I had to start again… god damn it fuck. Not manys girls left, the rest are mongs and also off their faces on drugs. Alex takes us out club. We have a serious talk, alex really likes where my game is at. And says its a shame they girl had a boyfriend, it happens where girls lie to get more attention.
On the way home, I bump into aussie girls with bfs, they are happy to see me, another girl that knows them comes over and chats. Shes very drunk, and they aussie girls leave me with her wtf. She seems like she wants me to pull her. But shes smashed, I do some tests of her personality to see if shes worth it. She cant remember my name after I tell her 4 times, so im not pulling her not cool, but the opportunity was there. After this I crash on my friends couch.
