LAY REPORT: Pulling A Model

LAY REPORT: Pulling A Model from Her Brother — Investment + Being Real as an Advantage + Technical Side of Pulling

Gonna start pumping out more lay reports again.

This pull especially had a lot of lessons. One of which being a simple paradigm-shift which gets girls in ANY mood/state. Plus makes game more exciting.

First time back in Brisbane and I’m feeling that slight anxiety when you’re in a new city again. The nervousness isn’t an issue. Everyone gets anxious every now and then. It’s normal.

It’s how you see it, the way you look at it.

Instead of letting anxiety control my behaviour, I see it as an enhancement to my game. I become more real. More relatable. It’s an emotional power which tells my story without using words. When you look at it like this, not only does it make your game better, but you’re more likely to approach..

Inside the club it’s an utter cockfest. Dicks on the dancefloor. Everywhere.

If you’re smart, that’s not a bad thing though. Another belief shift dudes need to make:

Cockfests can be a strategic advantage.

If there’s so many guys, you can stand out. You can relate to the girl better. Create a stronger “we” frame than otherwise possible. Frame the other dudes as beta chodes, and heighten your value by dealing with cockblocks etc.

Coming from Adelaide I’ve learn’t to game with bad male/female ratios.

I ‘help’ my wing for a bit while I relax and chill into the vibes of the club. One thing to note: if you frame yourself as only there to help your friend, you’re in a position of power.

You get all the opportunities of potentially getting the girl. But far lesser risk of blowout. Your cards aren’t on the table so much, like they usually would be.

Frame it like this whenever you can.

I saw a girl I liked.

She stood out like lightening amongst the hordes of dudes inside the club.

Most guys feel intimidated. But any simple, normal man can look at the situation in the right way and turn it in his favour.

It’s not magic. It’s most guys don’t even realise what they’re doing wrong. Everyone makes the same mistakes and no-one knows they’re doing it…

“Are you going to take me on a date to the bar?”

I give her a flirty look. I don’t even think she hears me properly and she responds “Are you going to buy me a drink” …

I blow it off and take the opportunity to lead her to the bar.

“I’ve never had a girl buy me a drink before” (obvs a lie) and she falls into my frame. She buys me a drink. Perfect, straight off the bat she’s chasin’ & the frame’s in my favour.

It works only because my sub-communication is on point. I’m ACTUALLY relaxed, normal and playful unlike others guys in the club.

I lock in and we banter for awhile, the interaction is going well. She’s invested by paying for the drink. Now I’m leaning back seemingly un-invested, so she fills up the space herself.

Everything I’m doing is getting her to invest, more and more.

We banter for a little while, but I wanted to help my wing out and look after him. I make it clear I wanted to spend time with him, so she’d have to accept that.

She follows us around for a while, investing and investing. Meanwhile I have zero neediness because I’m more invested in my friend than her (as it should be, you owe her nothing and don’t know this person!)

Plus by her following me around she’s clearly dtf. I can gauge how much compliance I’ll have for the pull.

She’s with two guys though. One being her brother. I chat to him real quick. He says I don’t care what she does we are pretty relaxed with each other.

BINGO.

Soon after my girl implies he’s a bit of chore and value leech for her … even better.

I film us kissing – she complies.

She’s following me around – she complies.

She’s buying me drinks.

Green light after green light. It’s clear I can pull.

I decide to take her home and leave my mate.

A lot of guys ask me why my pulling is effective.

One big key:

I stay vague. And super casual.

When she asks where we are going, I respond “somewhere better.”

That’s it. No need to over-sell the situation – that’s huge. Keep it simple.

If you need to fill in the details, do it gradually and only when necessary. Giving the full details straight off the bat allows her to give you a firm no right away.

Still, she seems on the fence, so I tell her we can come back to the club later. That on its own is enough.

One big mistake guys make, is they oversell. They do too much. They try too hard for the pull. It’s over qualifying the pull, it’s try-hard, it’s needy. It blows guys out and stops them from getting laid…

Do only what is necessary for her to comply at the time. No more.

Anyway – she says bye to her brother, we leave the club, uber ride, and the rest is history.

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Cheers for reading boys. Looking to start giving back to the community. Gonna start pumping out more LRs with lessons to hoist everyone a game up, and shine light on ya sticking points.

– Bradicus