4 Week Natural Program Journal – Day 14
As of writing this field report, I am quite drained, but also super content, but also overwhelmed with the sheer amount of stuff that has been happening. I dont really know where to start, and I have trouble remembering everything due to just how much has happened. I went out to do daygame, decided on the opera house, while I am writing this my hostel mates are having a water baloon fight…. jesus christ please don’t get water on my computer. We didnt spot many girls, we spotted other randoms clearly approaching. I number closed a norweigen girl, met more norweigens whom are going to ivy the next day, so decided didn’t need to close and see them there. Got a few more numbers, no real opportunities for instant dates really.
After this I went to my hostel for a drink, I heard that there was a party at scu and side bar tonight with the hostels. Checked out world bar, early on I did not like it, I really wanted to goto scubar or sidebar, due to the internationals, and possibly meet a girl in my hostel whom would be logistically do-able. World bar was full of Australians, and id made a decision I wasnt really after aussie girls. But I knew this is some form of bullshit, the lads came a bit later, and convinced me to stay. I had a few beers, thinking well if I have to talk to australians im gonna fucking drink, and approach like an idiot.
Some australian girl I thought was into me, was being difficult to reapproach, I was speaking to a swedish girl and her friend, but they just wanted to sexy girl dance time, hard to chat. Got some more rude aussie girls saying shit to me later outside, I was actually being nice to them. It was a pretty dead night aswell, with a lack of tourists. I spoke to some girl standing alone in the entrance-way. She was happy to talk, she was aussie, and I told her my favourite city is olso, and she said she was norweighen… At least her heritage. I was like wtf, an aussie norweigen girl, jesus. Okay im gonna stick in here for a bit longer, she was smart girl, knowing alot about ancient world history, something I like.
She lost her friend, so we went to find her friend, couldnt find her, so chilled with her outside for a bit. She didnt like beer, so I told her if she could beat me at a thumb war id buy her whatever drink she wanted, otherwise she has to drink a beer. She happily accepted, she couldnt really lose haha, obviously I won, I never lose. After that I kissed her, then pulled away saying something like fuck stop kissing me you norweigen! Went to the to the bar, on the way her friend called her, so no drink went to go outside the club. Immidaitely went to talk to the friend enthusiasticly saying yes we found you, we have been looking for you. She was liked really and looked happy, she was with a guy, whom I wasnt sure about the situation with, he was saying he was going with her, she seemed like not that into him but tolerated him.
We had like a few minutes until lock out, I said either we go in and get a drink, or ill wait for them to get an uber. They called an uber, I said I just wanted to wait with them so I could say bye, while the other guy was clearly saying im coming back, and the girls seemed unsure about him. I didnt want to be doing that aswell imposing myself on them, its just way too much pressure. When the uber arrived, I said bye to my girl, the other guy just jumped in the uber, and she was like wtf are you doing to him. And then u saw she was like oh fuck, and asked her friend if she liked me, she said yes, and was like well if hes coming you come too. I looked at my girl she didnt seem fussed, so I got in. They lived very far away, so I was not keen on getting in an uber if my girl was not comfortable with it. But she seemed unphased, I spoke to her in the back, about stuff while holding her hand on the way.
When we got out the taxi, I gave her space, to talk to her friend. Walked with them to their house, there was another girl here, whom was on a tinder date/sex so straight away it seemed these girls didnt really give a fuck. There were 2 rooms, but 6 of us, aka 3 potential couples. We all sat in the living room talking shit listening to music. The others were cozy with their girls, while I was just talking to mine from a distance, after a bit I got in closer and gave her a massage, she leaned back into me. I was unsure until this point if it was gonna happen, but I had a good feeling. Her friend brang a bed into the living room, pretty much said you two are sleeping here. We lied down, cuddling, the secound everyone went to their rooms she jumped on me, and it happened like that. I fucking adored this girl, she was so gorgeous, smart, open. After I came, I went down on her numerous times, I loved seeing her enjoy herself.
I felt so blessed this happened, its like it came out of nowhere, in the middle of what was a not so good looking night. Like fuck, I was thinking now I got a hostel no more pulling, but god blesses me with a situation where it happens anyway. We didnt sleep at all, and spent hours talking, getting to know each other. Shes very smart, she said if a guy kissed her at a club too much, it ruins it and she pretty much knows the whole story prematurely. She had uni in the morning, which was the same way I had to go to get home, so went took the bus together, she also bought me breakfast, what a sweetheart<3
