Lay Report: 5-min Pull After Bootcamp + How To Always Make The Most Of Opportunities
Sometimes when you’re out, opportunities flash into existence before you know it. Always be ready.
This happened straight after bootcamp, I felt exhausted, it’s 4am, saturday night, and I was satisfied with my typical nightly biz of levelling up my students.
It was time to head home and sleep. The job was done. Zero intention of meeting any girls.
Walking back to my car, I threw good intentioned words to some people walking past. Expecting nothing.
I wished one girl to get home safe, and complimented her nice choice of dress.
Now especially this late in the night, it’s crucial that you expect nothing. I felt 100% content about going home alone, the coaching had gone well and I was completely satisfied.
If I’d been even SLIGHTLY annoyed/off due to not pulling it would’ve been conveyed in how I talked to this girl. It would never work out.
She turned out to actually friendly and talkative, so I stopped. We both were just heading home, and we both wanted to go home.
After enjoying her company for a couple minutes, not trying to really get anything, I told her I was driving.
Andddd……
She asked to pay me to drive her home. Perfect. The opportunity had presented itself out of nowhere, and now it was just up to me to make this happen.
Though she lived in the opposite direction. A bit of risk I. But my intuition after doing pick up for so long told me it was somewhat on.
The way her tonality was qualifying her self…
Her micro facial expressions…
The way she looked at me…
All the small stuff.
I took the dive.
When a girl starts to rely on you, the situation becomes more delicate. You still need to create a sexual frame, but it needs to be happening under the radar. She needed to believe it was HER choice I was driving her home (and potentially sleeping with her).
After years of doing this, you gradually become more sensitive to this sub-communication. Understanding where the girl’s at, and communicating with her very subtly. Being sexual without blowing yourself out or ‘getting caught’ so to say.
What’s one simple, innocent move to escalate?
Link arms.
It creates a playful connection with very low risk of blow out. And this initial connection is the perfect gateway to something more sexual. It can set off a train reaction.
I did this with her, and before we got back to the car we’re kissing. Boom.
In the car, I used the long ride home to get to know her better. To build a connection. Most guys fuck up her.
PUA dudes get indoctrinated with silly RSD pull talk. Spitting verbal fluff to pre-occupy her mind and get her emotionally amped up…
WRONG. Please don’t do this. Ever.
If you’re in a car/taxi/uber, this is extra time to build a stronger connection with her (especially for quick pulls like this). And also to set up the right frame, and minimise objections once you get to the bedroom later.
Be smart. Think about how you can avoid LMR later on, by what you say now. There’s a multitude of powerful ways to do this, so you’ll remove ANY chance of resistance later on.
Same goes for pulling, escalating, isolating etc. Hint: lead her intelligently to rationalise. This is some of the wizardry I teach students when they’re ready for it.
And it changes the frame from you pulling her, to you and her pulling each other. Sometimes her pulling her, if you get it right.
Another thing I do to enhance the sexual frame, is play ‘Never have I ever’. You can take it in any direction you want, play with 2 people or more, and its rationalised as ‘ok’ because it’s a game.
Soon enough…
I’m rubbing her off whilst I drive.
Disclaimer: I don’t recommend trying. This was a little sketchy.
I pull over to the side of the road. We seal the deal together.
A standard pull for me takes much longer than this, by the way. Hours. I usually spend more time building connections, figuring out logistics, seeding the pull, etc. That way you can ensure results every single night.
However unpredictable, fast pulls are so very possible. They can pop up like a rabbit from it’s hole. Don’t be waiting for it all night, expecting an easy opportunity, but always be ready to make it happen!
Bradicus
